HOW TO SUPORT YOUR CHILD THROUGH CONFUSION

Step into Our Shoes (No Judgement Allowed)

Let’s start with the basics. We’re feeling lost, okay? It’s like navigating a dense fog with a broken compass. What we need from you isn’t a spiel about the good old days when job security was a thing. Instead, imagine you’re in the middle of a maze, and Google Maps just went offline. Empathy, not judgement, is your North Star.

Money Matters, But So Does Passion

Money makes the world go ’round, right? We’re not denying that. But there’s this myth that choosing passion over a fat paycheck is equivalent to living off air and sunshine. Spoiler alert: it’s not. There are ways to strike a balance between financial stability and doing something we genuinely love. Believe us, we’re not aiming to be the broke artist stereotype – we’re more like financially savvy creatives, thank you very much.

Communicate, But Don’t Overwhelm

We get it, the parent-to-child lectures are a time-honoured tradition. While we appreciate your wisdom, sometimes a simple, “Hey, I’m here if you need to talk” works wonders. Create a safe space where we feel comfortable opening up without fearing an avalanche of well-meaning advice. It’s not that we don’t value your opinion; we just need a moment to process and decide what advice aligns with our own inner compass.

Inspiring the Journey, Not Nagging the Destination

Nagging: it’s a term that often creeps into parent-child conversations. Instead of being labelled the resident nag, transform into the curator of inspiration. Remind us that the journey is just as important as the destination. Share stories of your own professional twists and turns, highlighting the lessons learned and skills acquired along the way.

Encourage a mindset shift from ‘I have to work’ to ‘I get to explore my interests.’ and if you come from a place of understanding this journey yourself rather than creating pressure for your child to figure out their whole life, it will be easier for them to hear you. The road to financial independence doesn’t have to be a monotonous highway; it can be a scenic route filled with unexpected detours and exciting discoveries. Suggest we explore passions, dabble in different industries, and test the waters before diving headfirst into a long-term commitment.

Remember, our career paths are still evolving, and moulding them is a process that involves a bit of trial and error. A sprinkle of encouragement, a dash of practical advice, and a whole lot of faith in our potential – that’s the recipe for transforming you from the notorious nagger to the legendary life coach.

So, dear parents, while supporting us in our quest for purpose, success, and financial independence, let’s turn those well-meaning nudges into inspiring nudges. After all, this journey is as much about the joy of exploration as it is about reaching the destination.

Your Grateful (and Maybe Slightly Exasperating) Offspring 🌟🌈